问如何获得我在mysqli上关注的人？

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$sqlFollowing = "SELECT * from follows_syds t1, follows_syds t2
    where
    t1.follower = ?
    and
    t1.following != ?
    and
    t2.follower != ?
    AND
    t2.following != ?";

$Following       = $conn -> prepare($sqlFollowing);
$Following       -> bind_param('ssss',$metUser,$metUser,$metUser,$metUser);
$Following       -> execute();
$FollowingGET    = $Following -> get_result();
$FollowingRows   = $FollowingGET -> num_rows;

$sqlFollowing      = "SELECT * from follows_syds t1
                                 INNER join follows_syds t2 on
                                 t1.follower = t2.following
                                 where
                                 t2.follower = ?
                                 and
                                 t1.following = ?
                                 group by t2.id";
$Following         = $conn -> prepare($sqlFollowing);
$Following        -> bind_param('ss',$getUser,$getUser);
$Following        -> execute();
$FollowingGET      = $Following -> get_result();
$FollowingRows     = $FollowingGET -> num_rows;

while($b = $FollowingGET -> fetch_assoc()){
$ve = $b['following'];

}
  $sqlowing      = "SELECT * from follows_syds t1
                    INNER join follows_syds t2 on
                    t1.follower = t1.follower
                    where
                    t2.follower = ?
                    and
                    t2.following != ?
                    AND
                    t1.follower != ?
                    and
                    t1.following != ?
                    group by t2.id";
  $owing         = $conn -> prepare($sqlowing);
  $owing        -> bind_param('ssss',$getUser,$ve,$ve,$getUser);
  $owing        -> execute();
  $owingGET      = $owing -> get_result();
  $owingRows     = $owingGET -> num_rows;
  while($a = $owingGET -> fetch_assoc()){
      print_r($a );
      echo "</br>";
}